It is worth spending quality time
with our loved ones. But, gripping them to stick to us for 24 hours is no way
to stay in a relationship. Holding our relationship selfishly and not letting our
spouse be independent, could let our relationship turn sour. Many people in this
world fail to realize that individuals differ in their approach to life. We
should learn to accept each others differences, thought and give our partners
their desired space in the relationship. Giving desired space is very important
to maintain a healthy relationship.
Firstly, Relationships can be compared
to sand, since the moment we hold it tightly in our palm, it starts sliding
off, and if we hold it loosely, then it remains with us. In a relationship too,
we need to learn to hold it loosely and not execute things on our better half. We
should never merge love life with our corporate life. We need to execute thing
in corporate life and express things in love life, but we do in vice versa. This
always creates problems and confusions, which makes to lose interest on relationships. If
we take a look at long-lasting and successful relationships, we can realize
that those couple don't always spend time sticking to each other. They do spend
quality time together, but at same time know how important it is to let each
other do things in their own way they like. Like example, Bollywood best couples:
Ajay Devgan & Kajol.
Always sticking to each other can
really make the relationship boring. Your spouse or partner should be able to
miss you. Remember the old memories, 'Absence makes the heart grow'. Missing each
other makes us to want each other more and love remains forever. For an
example, when we eat too much of sweet stuff, we tend to get sick of it at least
for a while. However, if we keep a balance between spice and sweet, we can enjoy
it more. Too much of sweetness or togetherness can also be harmful in a
relationship. Thus, it is best to give each other some space to adjust.
To maintain a good relationship, we
can divide our time doing things with our partner and things that we want to do
alone or with our friends. We can always plan to spend one day of the week with
our friends and the other with our spouse. This way we won't have too much or
too less of each other. However, this is again not possible without having trust
on our partner. Trust forms the basis of every relationship and we need to
learn to believe in our partner. Most couples do not give each other space
because there is a lack of trust in their relationship. This can only give rise
to unwanted quarrels, taking away the magic of our beautiful love life.
Whatever the state of our love life,
the ability to solve any clashes can be the key that makes a relationship work
well. For that, both the partners have to find a mutual solution by clear communication.
First and foremost we should have control on over our feelings; we shouldn’t jump
the wall whenever we feel like it. Let the moment of anger pass. Never lash out
at our partner in public places; as such incidents will always stand an ugly
mark on our relationship throughout our life.
Give priority to our love life but
not pressure or irritation. A relationship is usually at its highest peak
during the first few years. We need to carry this magic entire life. Space in a
relation is highly recommended to make it last forever. Other than loving our
partner, we also need to love our self and thus we need to take off time to
pamper our self. It is good to maintain our identity. This way there will be no
frustration in the relationship and it works smoothly without hurting anyone's
emotions.
No relationship can work better,
without giving the required space. This is the biggest secret of every successful
relationship.
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